Original posted 7/8/2011. I am now rejuvenating my 'roots' blog and am in hopes this stays afloat a tad longer than the past one! LOL
Being a grandfather….wow…..its going to happen this year. Am
I happy? You betcha!
What’s all this got to do with genealogy? Well lots of
course. See, with out Grandfathers we would not be here, would we!? In the past
twenty-four hours my head has been spinning and lots of thoughts bouncing
around upstairs. Being involved in genealogy we ask tons of questions to fill
in all those blank branches of the trees we grow. Now another branch will be
added to our family tree.
Taking all this into consideration I sat back and thought
about my grandfathers and the one great grandfather I remembered, which lead to
thinking of how my father, Joseph W. Small Jr. (Born: September 3, 1928 Died:
January 7th, 1997) handled being a grandfather and also about my father in law
R. Vernon Bickford (Born June 22, 1926) and how he continues being a great role
model as both a grandfather and great grandfather.
My great grandfather on my dad’s side was Conrad Arvidson
Seiders. I am still searching his past. I do know he was born in 1876 and died
in 1960. My only memories of him was at a very young age I went with Mom and
Dad to Portland to visit him in a nursing home. I was about 4 years of age. We
took him for a ride around the Portland/Westbrook area so he could reminisce
about his past. I knew little about him and he died shortly after our visit. So
Conrad is on my Family Tree Radar!
I then think of Conrad’s son in law, my Grandfather Joseph
W. Small Sr., born June 6th, 1899 in the Portland area. He died in Ellsworth on
September 1st, 1984. “Grampy Joe” was a wiry man, wire-rimmed glasses with a
neatly trimmed moustache. He was an outdoorsman who enjoyed fishing. From
streams to the larger lakes of Maine, he fished them with passion. He also
enjoyed the hunting that Maine had to offer as well. I remember him telling of
walking down the driveway of his house in Union, crossing the small field on
the other side and standing there within sight of his home and catching large
brown trout. Grampy Joe worked the railroad from Bangor to Quebec. The mail car
was his job. I noticed that he had a severe bend in his knee area and his
fingers on his right hand were bent at an odd angle. The knee problem arose
form hours of bracing himself against a bench for hours as the train car rocked
back and forth, the fingers bent from sorting and throwing mail into bags and
parcel slots on the walls. His love of the outdoors carried on to the gardens
he and Gram had in Union, he also loved his Siamese cats that they always had.
When Gram and Gramps health declined they moved to Ellsworth. Gram went into
Courtland living center because of her severe osteoporosis. Gramp went to live
with my parents with whom he lived until his passing in 1984. For a very short
time he got to enjoy his Great Grand daughter Kayla who was born in August
1983. When she visited him you could see the love in his eyes, a look I will
never forget.
Then there was my Grandfather on my mom’s side; Lyman
Linscott born May 19th, 1905 and died July 1st, 1980. “Gugga” and my
grandmother Phyllis divorced either before I was born of shortly after (yet
another search!) I remember Gugga as a shot in stature man. A hardworking man
whom I remembered working at Jordan’s Funeral home. He was a stonecutter
working on gravestones and monuments. In his later years he cleaned stones
freelance. Earlier in life he also worked for the railroad as a yard worker in
Hancock working on the roundtable station. He also was a great outdoors man, I
fondly remember him taking me to brook fish for trout out to Red Bridge here in
Ellsworth, fishing from the shore down to Fox Pond in the Black Woods.
He was lucky to be
able to buy a large wooden boat with a motor and I remember a couple of trips
down to Tunk. We shared some great times. In the 1970s I went to work for
Jordan’s Funeral Home as well. Gugga would visit the crew while we played
cribbage in the stone shed during the winter months…waiting for people to
“pass”. Gugga was a passionate cribbage player and when I made a mistake whilst
in the middle of a bruising 4-handed game, he would tune me up with a work
glove..or two. Gugga came for a large family and loved them all.
Now whats all this leading too? Well each branch of our
family has his or her own unique story which makes Family history such a great
area to be involved in. And Grandfathers (and Grandmothers of course!) make the
roots of our trees very strong.
I am in hopes that when the future granddaughter I now know
I will be enjoying for years to come, looks back and sees some of the strong
roots her Grandfather and Grandmother set down for her to grow on. Thank you
Kayla and Mac…thank you, and I am waiting to meet you Claire!